I can’t control my woman, I can only love her.

Will I ever find someone who sings great big beautiful tomorrow right before going to sleep?

from link, think about #2, appreciation, and if it’s sufficient

Would I ever text if I didn’t think it was something to help the other person, or to answer a question I need answered? Do I ever need to be made to feel better through text? Perhaps when I’m angry or upset with the other person. Perhaps a sign of a problem with the relationship

What could Carmen do differently to make me excited about this relationship?

Think seriously about what it would be like to lose the relationship

is this what I want? am I willing to do this for this relationship?

Consider a relationship situation where Carmen is willing to move and do whatever I want, how does that change how I feel about things

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Figure out who you’d want to be married to even if you weren’t in love with them. If a marriage only works conditional on being in love, it’s ngmi unless you’re very stubborn or have very unusual emotional mettle

I have been thinking so seriously about “my next relationship”, what does this mean?

Note from Charlotte thinking about relationship and life work

Note from when she was in Miami