Working on my relationship thinking → General notes → [[2020/10]] →
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Relationship

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Compatibilities

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  • Humor, silliness
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  • Excitement for travel,
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  • Political perspective
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  • Desire to try new food / drink
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  • Interest in well-designed experiences
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  • Overall frugality
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  • High level location preferences
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Incompatibilities

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  • Differences in preferred types of luxury
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  • $ management style
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  • Sleep schedule
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  • Pet prioritization
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  • Not fully aligned on “conversation topics” (what things to talk about, or how much to talk about them)
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  • Conflict management styles (not yet)
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  • Possible living location concerns?
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  • “Impact” prioritization
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  • How we should manage friends and family
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Potential Problems on my end

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  • Inability to get into “relaxed” mode when together (i.e. need alone time to do work / play)
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  • Defensive tendency, born maybe out of some belief that I’m consistently “giving”
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  • Invalidating tendency?
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