Dealbreakers

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There’s no way I can figure out how to be happy with someone who is / isn’t ____.

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There’s no way I can figure out how to be happy with someone who does / doesn’t __.

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There’s no way I can figure out how to be happy with someone who values / doesn’t value ____.

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There’s no way I can figure out how to be happy with someone who treats me / doesn’t treat me ____.

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There’s no way I can figure out how to be happy with someone who believes / doesn’t believe ____.

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Out of principle, I will only be with / will not be with someone who ____.

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separate fixable vs unfixable problems (some dealbreakers may be fixable)

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Thoughts

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Money and materialism

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need to be able to discuss things deeply without feeling hurt / sensitive

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When drinking I get stressed

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Part of the epic friendship is being able to go on bus rides with homeless people at night. Is that a requirement?

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Do I need to be willing to give up a professional aspiration to make the relationship work? e.g. not going to SF to stay together

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